Teach Adults update

Just a quick update to say that this new workshop is now open for registration! Click here to learn more and register!

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Teach Adults approved!

I have been approved to lead the Lay Servant course Teach Adults and the first session is scheduled for June 13-24!

If you’ve ever wanted to improve your ability to guide adult learners through their faith development, this two-week interactive GBOD-approved Lay Servant course is the way to do it! Learn about Multiple Intelligences, Adult Faith Development, Learning Hooks, and more!

In the first week, we’ll explore new teaching methods and you’ll each plan a 20-minute adult teaching session.

Over the weekend, you’ll lead and record that 20-minute session – either with an adult class you already lead, a class you can “borrow” for 20 minutes, or with a few adult friends or family members who agree to be your guinea pigs!

In the second week, we will review and give feedback on those videos, learning from each other as we go!

Participants will need to order and read Start Here by Barbara Bruce – and you must have the necessary technology to record their teaching session and send a copy of it to the course leader (a smart phone, for example).

The first session will be opening for registration next week – if you aren’t on BeADisicple’s monthly mailing list, check their website on Tuesday!

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Post-Easter Sermon Lesson

I often say that I preach more to myself than anyone else… Maybe I need it more! But for whatever reason, it certainly was true yesterday (Easter Sunday)!

I preached at Chelsea Community Church’s service on, what else?, the post-resurrection experiences described in scripture. They are so varied that there’s something for everyone – from terror and confusion to companionship to mysticism. And then there’s Mary…

Mary greets the gardner and recognized Jesus – and we can recognize him, too, in the shared humanity we have with him and everyone we meet! My point was that looking for those post-resurrection encounters can give us a resurrection – a changed life!

And then, a few hours later, as I climbed wearily out of the bus near my home, I realized I’d left my bag back at the church – and my church keys were in the bag! Back onto the bus, back onto the train, back across the city blocks to the church – and then, bag in hand, back on the train.

The wrong train….

When I realized that I hopped off the train, went into a nearby store to do a little shopping, and walked to another train station.

The wrong station…

No trains going to Queens from there – “take this train south and catch a…” So two stops in the wrong direction later, I caught another train. Which took me to another stop. Where I caught yet another train. To my usual stop, where God took pity on me and supplied a quick bus!

But the oddest thing kept happening on all those rides: I kept noticing Jesus in the stranger… I kept wondering what would it be like to see or hear Jesus in the precocious child across the bus? Or in her worried mother? Or her grinning, wise-beyond his years brother? Or in the guy with his legs spread across a couple seats? Or in the old woman bent double over her cane? Or the angry workman in the station, punching a poster onto a pillar with his fist? Or any of the rest of the mass of strangers we New Yorkers encounter every time we leave the house?

How can I love them the way I would love Jesus and learn from them and give to them? I think I’ll be pondering my own sermon for a long time.



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More Snow…

Yes, I know it is February and NYC has only had one snow storm… but that one storm gave us more snow than we usually get in an entire year! So you can understand my frustration that it is snowing again today… and perhaps will continue to snow off and on for the next three or four days! While we are only expecting a few inches total, it’s a few more inches than I want. And it’s a huge reminder that we are still in the heart of winter.


IMG_1502But last Sunday morning, between the church and the rectory, I snapped this picture of a different type of snow… a snow-drop! And it gave me a promise that spring is not too far away no matter what today’s weather might bring.


Wednesday, we’ll get another hopeful sign of spring: Lent begins!

I’m leading a small group of friends that will be meeting several times in February and March. The group will focus on Psalm 51 and, particularly, the Hebrew word “hesed” or “loving kindness.”

Hesed is a quality of God – it’s God’s loving kindness that promises spring will always follow winter, that new life will alway grow after a dormant period. And, this year, I think it melds beautifully with the meaning of another, more typical, Lent word: repent. The meaning of repent is “to turn around” – when we repent we turn away from everything else so we can turn toward God.

And what we are turning toward is God’s hesed, God’s loving kindness! I invite you to join me this Lent in experiencing God’s loving kindness toward us all – and then sharing your own loving kindness with those you meet!






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I Was Right!

I was right in my last blog entry: December flew by and Christmas was here before I knew it! And gone in a blur, it seems…

To recap, briefly: my reading group agreed to disagree about reindeer flight – they may leap and soar but only a few (okay, maybe only me) remained open to the possibility of real flight!

At 11pm on Christmas Eve, I went to bed instead of to the Candlelight service I intended to visit. And the Christmas presents I decided to make all my children and grandchildren on Wednesday… well, they are still a work in progress.

My Advent Meditation workshop was a wonderful grounding throughout the season – a special thanks to the two who continued to post long after the Christmas rush usually takes over!

My family arrived and we celebrated – food and Christmas specials and presents and games – and did I mention food? I think we averaged less than 100 square feet per person for three days AND stayed friendly! (By the way, Minute to Win It Christmas games on YouTube: excellent fun!)

And the Babe was born… the angels sang… the shepherds visited… the parents pondered and protected… Soon a New Year will be born, as well. Our thoughts move so quickly from the beginning of the Christ story, to the new beginning we feel to our own stories each January.

I pray for you that your Christmas was merry, joyful, peaceful, and blessed – and that your New Year will be happy, prosperous, fulfilling, and equally blessed! And that in the space between, this week of possibility, you will find some grace in which to quietly rest.



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December 1st

My husband handed me a flash drive this morning… Christmas music! As you might have noticed in previous posts, I’m having a hard time letting summer go, let alone fall! But today is December 1st and I’m reconciling myself to winter on the cold, gray, wet day we’re having in the northeast today.

“It feels like Christmas…” Well, no… The tree is out of its box but the branches are all pointed in odd directions and the needles are still clumped together! It will take a lot more work before things feel like Christmas around here!

“May all your Christmases be white…” Well, not yet… It’s raining, not snowing this morning! Thank goodness, as I am really not ready for snow!

“Tidings of comfort and joy…” Well, I am ready to receive this – as I think most of us are! There’s so much sadness in the world around us. And the current horrors almost wipe out the recollection of the long-standing tragedies –  World Aids Day gets overshadowed by the latest hate crime, and all of it gets beat back by Black Friday and Cyber Monday.

“That’s what Christmas means to me…” Well, okay, I’m getting there! I’m leading an Advent meditation workshop through BeADisciple.com and it forces me to take some time every day of Advent to consider what Christmas means to me and how I live it out.

“Rudolph… had a very shiny nose…” Well, this is helping, too: I’m leading the reading group at Chelsea Community Church through the book Flight of the Reindeer by Robert Sullivan. Sullivan’s convinced that reindeer really fly and uses his expertise as a nature writer to put science to supporting fantasy in a wonderfully tongue-in-cheek book. But the deeper message for me this year is about “belief” itself. We believe some very ridiculous things without any trouble at all – like that Christmas is about shopping! – so why do we have trouble believing in flying reindeer?

“Soon it will be Christmas Day…” Well, yes, it will! December will fly by as fast as summer did! Join me in some wondering and pondering this Advent so your heart is prepared for Christmas, so that what you believe is what you live out, and so that the Child’s birth is evident in all you do!

Blessed Advent!



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Ironing Sheets

Yesterday, I threw away a sheet – an old, white, cotton, flat sheet.

I got the sheet from my mother, who I believe got it from my grandmother. Unlike Grandma, Mom preferred poly-blend sheets that went from dryer to bed – and certainly preferred fitted bottom sheets to my grandmother’s old-fashioned double flat sheet system!

Being the daughter and granddaughter I was raised to be, I remember the history of this sheet because it is like the history of so much that I have at one time owned: when one of us dies or moves or runs out of a use for something, it simply gets passed to the next available person. I’ve inherited cast iron frying pans, a quilt, a 5-generations old table, ladies’ handkerchiefs, crystal & dishes, a foldable drying rack, doilies, laundry baskets, jewelry… and sheets.

I’m afraid I have passed this tradition along. When Tony and I moved from a big parsonage to a small apartment, my children heard so often they probably cringed, “Could you use….” Grandma’s tiny wicker bottomed chairs went to live at my daughter’s home; her aluminum Christmas tree (shedding 1960’s foil in its wake) went to my son’s. But I’ve also thrown away my  fair share of the worn out hand-me-downs.

So yesterday, it was the sheet’s turn. I gathered it up in my arms, headed to the trash can, and suddenly got hit with a memory – sight and sound and smell all at once!

I was a very small child again, hanging around my mother in the small room off her bedroom where the mangle lived. The windows were open and sunshine poured in with the fresh air. Mom was feeding damp wrinkled white cotton sheets into one side and, with the scent of hot steam, out the other side came dry, perfectly smooth, flowing folds of hot fabric!


I doubt I’ll forget the mangle magic without that sheet – but it’s memories we save in the odd bits of the past we hang on to. And if I “mangle” the moment a little (I’m sure for Mom it was less magic and more hard work!), that’s okay too. The problem comes in clinging too tightly to those bits – wrapping ourselves in old sheets as if they were the salvation of the next generation!

You know where I’m headed here, right? For families, for churches – it’s all the same. Enjoy the memories and inheritances, but know when you are hanging on to something that’s outlived its usefulness… know when something needs to be thrown out so something better can take it’s place!



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